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Seerah of the Prophet:
Hadithatul Ifk
(student notes Thursday, February 20, 2003)
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) was the
wife that was with the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam)
on his trip back to Madinah from Bani Mustaliq. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) chose Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) from his wives to accompany
him on this Ghazwah. On their trip back, Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) used
the bathroom at night. Using the bathroom required that they go a distance
far away, and it was during this time she lost her necklace. After realizing
she had lost it, she decided to look for it in the morning. In the morning,
as she was looking for it, the entire caravan left but she did not know.
During this time, the women traveled
in a haudaj, a small enclosed carrier that a group of men would eventually
place on top of a camel. The companions did not know she was not inside
her haudaj because they did not look to see what was inside it. Likewise,
she was so thin that they didnt notice the difference. The caravan
then moved forth.
She kept looking for the necklace
because the necklace was for her sister Asma. When she came back no one
was there. Thus, she decided to wait on the path way. She did this for
two reasons:
1. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) used to keep someone
behind to oversee if anyone was left behind
2. maybe someone was like her stranded
Safwan ibn Muaqil happened to have
stayed behind because he either missed the caravan or because he was the
point guard left behind to check on those left behind.
It was reported by Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) in Hadith Bukhari that all Safwan said to her (radhi Allahu anha)
were two statements:
1. "inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi
rajioon" (To Allah we belong and to Allah we return.)
2. "the wife of the prophet Muhammad?".
He did not even tell her "We
are on our way back." This is because he was a man of honor and he
sought to preserve the honor of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam) .
'How he recognized Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) if she was such a decent woman with proper hijab' was one of the
questions the slanderers spread. Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) said he recognized
her from the days before hijab.
Safwan then put his camel down so
she could ride it and he walked away before she tried to ride the camel.
He did this so that he would not look. He then came back to lead the camel
on the journey back to Madinah.
They reach Madinah about Dhuhr time.
The head of the hypocrites, Abdullah Ibn Ubayy, had been waiting. At the
gates of Madinah, he saw them and began to spread an indirect slander.
He said to some effect "She must have done something with him and
he must have done something with her."
He said it in very broad words because
he was very manipulative in using the right words not to be punished but
just enough to instigate evil thoughts in peoples minds. The people
around him heard him and began to spread the rumor.
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) at the time
was an innocent young girl about 14 years old. She did not know what was
going on for 27-28 days after the rumor had started. She was unhappy and
crying even though she did not know people were talking about her. This
was because the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was harsh
to her, speaking to her in third person "How is she doing?"
It was very hard for the Prophet Muhammad
(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam). One of the hardest things for a man is
for someone to come and talk about his wife. This is worse than insulting
a man, in addition to what the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam) was going through with all the kuffar slandering him calling him
a poet, a magician, etc.. as well as the hypocrites trying to form a coalition
against him.
The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam) went to the mimbar and told the people that there had been
a rumor being spread about his wife. He asked who would take care of the
situation and Usaid ibn hudayr came forth. He said "Oh prophet if
this man is from the Aws we will take care of him. If he is from the Khazraj,
they will take care of it."
At this time everyone was already
tense because of the Prophet Muhammad's (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam)
announcement. But, Saad ibn Ubadah became defensive and said "Oh
you hypocrite! Do not say that! The only reason you are saying that is
because you know that the person you are talking about is from the Khazraj.
(meaning, Abdullah Ibn Ubayy because he is from them)."
The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam) calmed them down and advised them to be quiet.
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) still did
not know what was going on. At night she went with her older friend Umm
Mustah to use the bathroom outside. They had to walk a distance. Umm Mustah
tripped over her dress and almost fell. Umm Mustah said "May Allah
(azza wajal) curse Mustah. (her son)" Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) was
surprised and asked her why she did that. Umm Mustah eventually revealed
the rumor to Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) and said her son was a part of
the slander.
For two nights and one day, it was
reported that Aisha's (radhi Allahu anha) tears would not stop falling
from her cheeks. It was also narrated that she said she thought her internal
organs would explode.
On the 30th night, Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) , Abu Bakr, and her mother faced the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) . The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam)
told her "If you did something tell me so you can repent. If you
did it do tawbah so you meet Allah (azza wajal) repenting." Aisha
(radhi Allahu anha) looked at her father and told him she did not do any
of this. And her father, Abu Bakr, reiterated what the Prophet Muhammad
(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said. She then looked at her mother for
help and her mother said the same thing as the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) said. Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) became angry and her
tears dried with her heart becoming hard. She said "The only thing
I am going to tell you is the same thing Abu Yusuf (Yaqoob) told his sons
when Yusuf was taken away
fa sabroon jameel wallahul mustaanu
ala matasifoon . "With good patience, Allah is the one who
aids me in that which you are accusing me.. ."
She was narrated to have said that
after saying those words she felt relieved and knew that Allah (azza wajal)
would declare her innocent. She was finally able to sleep. She said that
she no longer worried about her situation but instead the situation of
her parents because she thought they would die from worrying about the
slander.
Shortly thereafter, Allah (azza wajal)
revealed her innocence.
"And had it not been for the
Grace of Allah (azza wajal) and His Mercy on you (He would have hastened
the punishment upon you)! And that Allah (azza wajal) is the One Who accepts
repentance, the All-Wise." (Surah An-Nur: 10)
Our duty as Muslims, if we have not
seen solid proof, is that we should not discuss rumors. It has no benefit.
Some spread the rumor and some kept to themselves such as Abu Ayub al
Ansari and his wife.
Abu Ayub said to his wife, "Do
you know what is going on in Madinah today? If you were alone in the desert
with Safwan, would you have done something wrong?" She said "No."
He said "Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) is better than you, she would
not have done anything." Then his wife asked him "If you were
alone with Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) in the desert would you have done
anything?" He said "No." She said "Oh Safwan is better
than you. It never happened."
This is why Allah (azza wajal) revealed
in Surah An-Nur: "Why then, did not the believers, men and women,
when you heard it (the slander) think good of their own people and say:
"This (charge) is an obvious lie?"
When we hear something like this,
we should think good of others. Unless there is solid proof and there
is benefit in discussing it, we should think of Muslims in a good light.
When her mother woke Aisha (radhi
Allahu anhu) up and told her of her innnocence as being declared by Allah
(azza wajal), her mother advised her to thank the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam). Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) refused and said the only
one she will thank is Allah (azza wajal) because Allah (azza wajal) declared
her innocence in the Quran.
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) said she
knew that Allah (azza wajal) would declare her innocence but she did not
expect that it would be in the Quran and for all to know until the
day of judgment. In her honor, we have ten verses in the Quran.
When innocence was declared, the Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) had three people were whipped.
Mustah ibn Uthathah (Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) s friends son)
Hamanah bint Jahsh (sister in law of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) )
Hassan ibn Thabit (the poet of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam) )
As we know in Islam, 80 lashes is
the punishment for those who accuses a woman of adultery. Four just and
known to be honest people are needed. If three people come forward, all
three will be whipped even if they told the truth. If four people come
forward, and one of them is a known liar, they will all be whipped. If
four people come forward and have seen two people naked inside a house,
it is not adultery and if they were to come forth, they would all be whipped.
The actual sexual intercourse must be witnessed. This is how islam protects
the honor of this Umm ah. Insufficient witness and evidence will risk
the accuser of being whipped and his future testimonies will not be accepted.
Allah (azza wajal) says: "Why did they not produce four witnesses?
Since they (the slanderers) have not produced witnesses! Then with Allah
they are the liars." (Surah An-Nur: 13)
This is not something to defame the
Sahabah about. It was a mistake they committed and Allah (azza wajal)
forgave them.
There were four people who spread
the rumor but only three were whipped. Abdullah ibn Ubayy was the one
that was not whipped. According to the scholars, the reasons as to why
he was not whipped was:
1. To the Muslims Abdullah was seen
as a hypocrite, but to the outsiders he was seen as a Muslim. The Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) did not want outsiders to see that
he killed his own people. For the same reason, the scholars say the Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) did not whip Abdullah.
2. Allah (azza wajal) said in Surah
An-Nur "Verily! Those who brought forth the slander (against 'Aisha
(radhi Allahu anha) h (may Allah be pleased with her) the wife of the
Prophet ) are a group among you. Consider it not a bad thing for you.
Nay, it is good for you. Unto every man among them will be paid that which
he had earned of the sin, and as for him among them who had the greater
share therein, his will be a great torment." (Surah An-Nur: 11)
The whipping in this life rectifies
the sin they have committed like what was done to the three companions,
but Abdullah Ibn Ubayy will have his punishment in the Hereafter.
3. Abdullah Ibn Ubayy did not directly
say the two committed adultery.
After this event, Abdullah Ibn Ubayy was exposed and became a loner. In
context of Umar (radhi Allahu anhu) wanting to chop his head off at Bani
Mustaliq, the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) used this
event to teach Umar (radhi Allahu anhu) some wisdom. He taught Umar the
wisdom that if they had killed the hypocrite there would have been a comotion
and people would rally behind Abdullah Ibn Ubayy. After this event, Abdullah
Ibn Ubayy was no longer credible.
"And had it not been for
the Grace of Allah and His Mercy on you (He would have hastened the punishment
upon you)! And that Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, the All-Wise.
Verily! Those who brought forth the slander (against 'Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) h (may Allah be pleased with her) the wife of the Prophet ) are
a group among you. Consider it not a bad thing for you. Nay, it is good
for you. Unto every man among them will be paid that which he had earned
of the sin, and as for him among them who had the greater share therein,
his will be a great torment. Why then, did not the believers, men and
women, when you heard it (the slander) think good of their own people
and say: "This (charge) is an obvious lie?" Why did they not
produce four witnesses? Since they (the slanderers) have not produced
witnesses! Then with Allah they are the liars. Had it not been for the
Grace of Allah and His Mercy unto you in this world and in the Hereafter,
a great torment would have touched you for that whereof you had spoken.
When you were propagating it with your tongues, and uttering with your
mouths that whereof you had no knowledge, you counted it a little thing,
while with Allah (azza wajal) it was very great. And why did you not,
when you heard it, say? "It is not right for us to speak of this.
Glory be to You (O Allah) this is a great lie." Allah (azza wajal)
forbids you from it and warns you not to repeat the like of it forever,
if you are believers. And Allah makes the Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses,
lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) plain to you, and Allah is All-Knowing,
All-Wise. Verily, those who like that (the crime of) illegal sexual intercourse
should be propagated among those who believe, they will have a painful
torment in this world and in the Hereafter. And Allah knows and you know
not. And had it not been for the Grace of Allah (azza wajal) and His Mercy
on you, (Allah) would have hastened the punishment upon you). And that
Allah is full of kindness, Most Merciful. (Surah An-Nur: 10-20)
We thank Allah (azza wajal) for this
event because of the good derived from this. One of them was the declaration
of Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) s innocence until the day of judgment.
Another one was that Allah (azza
wajal) warns us not to return to slandering Aisha (radhi Allahu anha)
and the Sahabah, or anything similar to this. This applies to the shiaa
who accuse the sahabah of all evil.
Imam Malik was narrated to have said
in minhaj al Sunnah by Ibn Taymiyyah "anyone who slanders Aisha (radhi
Allahu anha) or any of the sahabah is a kafir." (based on the previous
ayah)
Attacking the Sahabahs character
means elimination of the Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam) since they were the ones who narrated them.
Most of the hadith about the Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was narrated from Aisha (radhi
Allahu anha) . Thus, Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) was a special woman. She
had a nephew named Urwa bin Zubair. (Zubair ibn Awam and Asma (Aisha (radhi
Allahu anha) s sister) had a son named Urwa bin Zubair.) Aisha (radhi
Allahu anha) took care of him and he reported much information about Aisha
(radhi Allahu anha) from poetry to scholarship. One of them was how Aisha
(radhi Allahu anha) knew medicine. He reported that Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) reported that when Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam)
was sick she would learn from the many people who would come from different
places to cure him.
When the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) was asked who the most beloved was to him. He told them
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) . Then he told them second to Aisha (radhi Allahu
anha) was her father Abu Bakr.
Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) was given
ten important characteristics:
1. Angel Jibril came in her physical
appearance.
2. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) never married a
virgin but her.
3. Both her parents were muhajireen.
4. Allah (azza wajal) brought revelations declaring her innocence.
5. Revelations came down to Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam)
while sleeping in bed next to her.
6. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and her used shower
together in the same bath tub.
7. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) used to pray while
she was laying down in front of him. One narration was that he he pinched
her to move her leg because he could not make sujood.
8. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) died with his head
on her chest.
9. He died in Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) s house.
10. The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was buried in her
own house.
When the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam) was dying, Aisha (radhi Allahu anha) s brother
Abdullah walked in and he had a miswak in his mouth. The Prophet Muhammad
(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was too sick to talk. He looked at Abdullah
and she knew he had wanted Abdullahs miswak. She took the miswak
and chewed the side Abdullah was not using. Then she gave it to the Prophet
Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) . Thus, the last saliva in his
mouth was hers.
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